Do you have double standards? I do and if you’re honest you probably do, too. I’m not talking about the kind of double standard that allows a good looking guy to hit on me but picking up the phone for HR when the less than good looking guy tries; I’m talking simple everyday stuff. Like being grossed out when I see someone spit in public but then I’ll do it when I’ve got a cold and expect people to be accepting.
I’ve recently noticed that these types of double standards can and do cause a lot of unnecessary arguments. I’m going to save you a lot of time and heartache right now by pleading with you to let this stuff go. It’s not worth it. Leaving the toilet seat up or not rinsing a dish are not reasons for breaking up. If you love someone let the little things slide unless you’re sure it’s a deal breaker you can’t live with long term.